This is the easiest way to show a guy that you like him or to tell if he likes you. Sometimes people can do it unintentionally and might not even know that they're flirting because it just comes naturally. People often give others the wrong idea by doing this so please be careful. Some guys are just IDIOTS and flirt with every decent looking girl and if the girl likes him she'll fall for him more and think that he has an interest in her. So watch out for them PLAYERS out there because it doesn't feel nice when you're feelings have been messed with.
Ways Of Flirting...
How to flirt...
So you see the guy you like and you just NEED to get his attention or talk to him. If he is a friend talking to him will be easy, just start conversation as normal, getting past that friendship stage may be slightly harder and you'll need to show him that you like him.
Don't worry girls, this isn't too hard to do.
-CONFIDENCE is the key, with this you're a step closer already. It makes you look and feel better without even trying.
-SMILE at him, you'll seem happy and approachable. No guy would want to go and talk to a girl who looks like she wants to murder someone.
-EYE CONTACT is a must, stare into those eyes that you love and look deep within him. Hold it for a few seconds and slowly drag your eyes away. Don't just suddenly look away because it will make you seem uncomfortable. You have to show him that you're in control.
-LAUGH, don't be afraid to. Most girls won't feel right laughing in front of their crush because they might not like the way they laugh. Don't worry, laughing shows that you can be fun and he will feel like you enjoy being around him.
-BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER. Don't be afraid to make contact with him, if you haven't before then this barrier needs to be broken. All you need to do is casually touch his shoulder while you talk or touch him playfully. It really isn't very hard.
-BE YOURSELF, don't try and act like someone that you aren't to make him like you more. This never gets you anywhere. Being yourself gets him to know the real you and this about it, would you really want him to end up liking you because you put on an act when you're with him?
-SPEND TIME TOGETHER, this shouldn't be hard if you go to the same school or are in the same class even. Lunchtimes, after school or out of school is fine depending on how close you are with him. Doing this lets you get to know each other better.
-LISTEN to what he says, let him talk a bit. Don't ramble on about nothing for ages boys get bored easily and have short attention spans. The convo needs to be flowing and interesting to keep him into it.
-HUG him, this shouldn't be difficult if you're already close friends and it lets you get a nice feel of what it's like to be soo close to him :P
-COMPLIMENT him, just like us girls, guys feel happier and better about themselves when they get complimented. Don't be shy it could be anything small like "I like you shoes" or something like "You smell nice today"
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Those were just some basics for you girls who may not be that confident and just wanted a head start. There are more daring ways to flirt if you have the confidence, so if you already do all the basic things and want to take it a step further then here's what you've got to do...
Don't worry girls, this isn't too hard to do.
-CONFIDENCE is the key, with this you're a step closer already. It makes you look and feel better without even trying.
-SMILE at him, you'll seem happy and approachable. No guy would want to go and talk to a girl who looks like she wants to murder someone.
-EYE CONTACT is a must, stare into those eyes that you love and look deep within him. Hold it for a few seconds and slowly drag your eyes away. Don't just suddenly look away because it will make you seem uncomfortable. You have to show him that you're in control.
-LAUGH, don't be afraid to. Most girls won't feel right laughing in front of their crush because they might not like the way they laugh. Don't worry, laughing shows that you can be fun and he will feel like you enjoy being around him.
-BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER. Don't be afraid to make contact with him, if you haven't before then this barrier needs to be broken. All you need to do is casually touch his shoulder while you talk or touch him playfully. It really isn't very hard.
-BE YOURSELF, don't try and act like someone that you aren't to make him like you more. This never gets you anywhere. Being yourself gets him to know the real you and this about it, would you really want him to end up liking you because you put on an act when you're with him?
-SPEND TIME TOGETHER, this shouldn't be hard if you go to the same school or are in the same class even. Lunchtimes, after school or out of school is fine depending on how close you are with him. Doing this lets you get to know each other better.
-LISTEN to what he says, let him talk a bit. Don't ramble on about nothing for ages boys get bored easily and have short attention spans. The convo needs to be flowing and interesting to keep him into it.
-HUG him, this shouldn't be difficult if you're already close friends and it lets you get a nice feel of what it's like to be soo close to him :P
-COMPLIMENT him, just like us girls, guys feel happier and better about themselves when they get complimented. Don't be shy it could be anything small like "I like you shoes" or something like "You smell nice today"
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Those were just some basics for you girls who may not be that confident and just wanted a head start. There are more daring ways to flirt if you have the confidence, so if you already do all the basic things and want to take it a step further then here's what you've got to do...
- Take compliments to the next level by saying things like: "Do you work out because it looks like you do" or "Not only are you good looking but you're funny too".
- When you hug him hold it for a few seconds longer than usual and press yourself closer to him. Smile at him with kind eyes after the hug to show that you enjoyed it and it meant something to you.
- Fix something like his collar if your at school to give you a reason to get close and touch him, look into his eyes after you do it to show that you care.
- Biting or slightly licking your lips when you talk to him shows that you have some sort of interest.
Boys way of flirting...
When boys flirt it may not be as obvious as when girls do it but there are still quite a lot of signs to look out for...
He’ll gaze in your direction, smile, maintain eye contact for up to four seconds, give you a half smile, look away before having another peek around 30 seconds later. But these are just the commonly used ones...
He will also:
- Compliment you
- Try to big himself up
- Ask for hugs from you more than other girls
- Face you when you're in a group of people
- Ask you about yourself
- Touch you a lot
- Try to make you laugh/smile
- Try to impress you
- Speak in a kinder tone of voice to you than he does to others
- Listen to what you say and try to relate himself to it
-Try to back you up when someone does something
-Joke around with you or be silly
- Hold eye contact for a long time and smile
- Walk behind you so he can watch you
-Remind you of past conversations you've had shows that he
remembers things you say because he may have an interest in you.
-Watch your lips
-Offer to do or carry something for you
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Guys are usually more confident than us girls so if they like you they'll start conversation and won't be afraid to get close to you but there are a few shy ones which are harder to crack and you'll need to work on them a little bit.
For other guys, flirting is just a second nature, it's how they live, flirting is their lifestyle. Boys like that are fun to be around, trust me ;) but they can mislead you and it's hard to tell if they like you or not. You need to be sure, so see how they flirt with others compared to you. If they seem more caring and emotional toward you than others then you might be in with a shot. Confident and flirtatious guys would find a time to be alone with you so they can get to know you more and see if they actually like you.
Just be careful and don't let anyone play with your heartstrings.
GOOD LUCK GIRLS !
He’ll gaze in your direction, smile, maintain eye contact for up to four seconds, give you a half smile, look away before having another peek around 30 seconds later. But these are just the commonly used ones...
He will also:
- Compliment you
- Try to big himself up
- Ask for hugs from you more than other girls
- Face you when you're in a group of people
- Ask you about yourself
- Touch you a lot
- Try to make you laugh/smile
- Try to impress you
- Speak in a kinder tone of voice to you than he does to others
- Listen to what you say and try to relate himself to it
-Try to back you up when someone does something
-Joke around with you or be silly
- Hold eye contact for a long time and smile
- Walk behind you so he can watch you
-Remind you of past conversations you've had shows that he
remembers things you say because he may have an interest in you.
-Watch your lips
-Offer to do or carry something for you
_______________________________________________
Guys are usually more confident than us girls so if they like you they'll start conversation and won't be afraid to get close to you but there are a few shy ones which are harder to crack and you'll need to work on them a little bit.
For other guys, flirting is just a second nature, it's how they live, flirting is their lifestyle. Boys like that are fun to be around, trust me ;) but they can mislead you and it's hard to tell if they like you or not. You need to be sure, so see how they flirt with others compared to you. If they seem more caring and emotional toward you than others then you might be in with a shot. Confident and flirtatious guys would find a time to be alone with you so they can get to know you more and see if they actually like you.
Just be careful and don't let anyone play with your heartstrings.
GOOD LUCK GIRLS !